I’m one of those allergic hippies, who doesn’t like to put stuff on my skin or orifices that isn’t from natural origins. We’ve tried every lube on the market. KY feels cold, wears out and gives me this odd sensation of burning. Water based lubes are useless, because they fade so quickly, and we haven’t found an oily one that wouldn’t go sticky-gooey-gluing us together-sticky.
Shea butter is the best lube and moisturizer we’ve come up with this far. It’s a little clunky and you have to warm it in your hands first, so we added some jojoba oil I use for face care. It’s perfect.
I’ve mentioned it before, but the first time we used it, when I was sucking Wonderboy’s cock, he kept saying “I can’t believe how good this feels”. He was gone in minutes, and that’s not usual. It really just does feel like my own juices, so it’s not that invasive to add some of it during or before sex. Earlier I sometimes felt insulted and insufficient, when Wonderboy reached for the lubes, (and he usually mixed them all good, because none of them were really good) and I’ve come to think it was partly because they stang me or felt awful in some other ways.
I especially recommend shea butter for ass play. It gives such a butter-like protection. Nothing tears, and I can ask for harder and harder, which I like and have orgasms from, but it used to be too painful.
Incidently, raw shea butter is sold in organic and eco friendly shops and costs the third of what a decent lube would. A lump of it also keeps in the fridge for a year – and it will probably be enough for a year, too!
The kinkiest part is that you can still use it for skincare too. When we were watching a movie in bed yesterday (Lord of the Rings because it’s Christmas!) I asked Wonderboy to pass me the lube. He was baffled at first as to what I would use it to do, but then realized. Oh yeah, here you go. I dabbed some on the freeze spots on my face and we continued to watch the movie and drink beer. That’s a good lube, epecially if you’re so lazy you wouldn’t get out of bed to moisturize your face. Perfect.